Today we’re celebrating Grandparents Day at Bonkers Beat, making room for these moments and the grandparents and special older friends who make them possible.

Research has linked supportive, involved relationships with grandparents to better emotional wellbeing in young people. It’s a meaningful reminder of how much these connections can offer as children grow.

The bond between the oldest and youngest members of our communities deserves celebrating whenever we have the opportunity. Grandparents Day gives us a lovely reason to pause and enjoy it.

“Did you do this when you were little?”

For young children, an older person’s everyday memories can be fascinating. What games did they play? What did their school look like? Did they sing the same nursery rhymes?

These conversations give children a glimpse of life beyond their own experience. Sharing family stories can also help them discover more about their own unique family history, including the languages and traditions that are part of their lives.

Plus, the sharing goes both ways! Children have plenty to teach, whether they’re explaining the very particular rules of an invented game or showing someone how to join in their favourite song.

Start with a song

At Bonkers Beat, music is always a natural place for us to begin.

Try asking a grandparent or special older friend to share a song they remember from childhood. Sing it together, clap along or let children make up some movements. If it’s in another language, invite them to teach everyone a few words.

Then let the children choose a song to share in return. Nobody needs a polished performance. Joining in is the lovely part.

Keep the connection going

For families and educators, a few easy activities can carry the celebration beyond one day:

• Explore an old photograph: Ask, “Who’s here?” or “What was happening?” Follow the child’s questions rather than trying to tell the whole family history.
• Make something familiar: Prepare a favourite family snack together, with children helping to stir, measure or shape.
• Swap games: An older person might introduce a childhood favourite, then have a turn at something the child enjoys.
• Share a small discovery: Look for new leaves in the garden or watch the birds from a comfortable seat. Leave time to notice and chat.
• Send a little hello: A drawing, voice message or short video of a favourite song can help bridge the distance when visiting isn’t possible. A great way to keep it inclusive too.

Choose something that suits everyone’s energy and abilities.

Every family has its own story

Some children have grandparents nearby. Others live far apart, have experienced a loss or have different family relationships.

Inviting “grandparents and special friends” makes space for an older neighbour, family friend or another important person in a child’s life. For educators, checking in privately with families beforehand helps avoid putting children on the spot.

Children can choose whom they’d like to celebrate, and whether they want to share a memory. There’s no need for every child’s contribution to look the same.

To the grandparents and special people joining us at Bonkers Beat today, thank you for being part of the children’s world!